从小到大，都没为自己规划将来。幼稚园升小学，小学升中学，一直到大学学位／硕士；像我一样，这是80代后每个年轻人都拥有的背景；回想起我所经历的一切，我从来没有问过我爸爸妈妈，为什么我要读小学？为什么我要念大学？在我们的认知当中，将大学毕业订为人生第一大目标是正常的事。
大学毕业后，每个人各走各的路。当一个人过惯了20年的群体生活，做什么都一伙儿干的时候；你就会在这时必须自己选一条路时而顿时失去安全感。而我，不仅仅是没了这安全感，还多了一份恐惧感。
要怎么说呢？你们相信好运气会有消耗完毕的一天吗？我不算是一个怨天尤人的年轻人，相反的我还一直觉得自己得到的比同辈的来得更快、更顺利。尤其在这一年，我的所有目标在这一年都实现完了。Master毕业、找到一份被我视为嗜好的工作、也实现了我的旅游梦、更高兴的是我没有了“子欲养而亲不在”的遗憾。爸妈最近在忙新店装修的事，我第一次尽了儿女该有的责任，很有幸地为他们扛起这笔装修费。这一年，我觉得我已经耗尽了一生的运气。
就在我毅然决定毕业后要回马来西亚发展时，脑袋不断浮现了一些不吉利的画面；这样的画面重复提醒着我是否应该留守着现在拥有的。放弃了现在，或许永远也回不来。可是又有哪家的父母希望亲手送到海外念书的孩子们有去没回呢？即使到KL发展我也百般不愿意，更何况是英国。
我知道所谓的未来不会忽然就呈现在眼前，未来就是将今天所做的努力一点一滴集合起来的。《圣经》上有句话说：“不要为明天忧虑，因为明天自有明天的忧虑。” 我在想，万一我的好运气耗尽了，守护天使离开了我，我还有勇气微笑应对吗？
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人生就是这样一步步的探索才会精彩~~~
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Let's say if i stay in uk to work 5 years, i might have to start my career 5 years later in Malaysia. What i gain is the money n experience i've had in first 5 years. But what i "potentially" lose is the money i could earn in the last few years b4 my retirement. This is bcoz i start my career late.
n talk about my options available at the moment, ... Read moretier 1 Entrepreneur visa and working permit. I don't really fancy the second choice coz it doesnt make my life better to work in UK due to the uncomfortable income tax rate and living expenses. I could even save more money if i work in Malaysia coz all my incomes would be treated as foreign income n it's exempted under the current tax system. forget about the Entrepreneur visa, coz i dun have £200,000 to fulfill the requirement although i could put my name as a director under my family business in uk.
so....wat i wanted to say is, i already had a FINAL decision in my heart. It's just that i don't have enough courage to move this BIG step.
but that's a good thing. It's how i learn and grow. I tended to live in a bubble believing I could have everything I wanted. I didn't expect there are so many difficulties when i turn these plans into reality. Overcoming those challenges are part of life's rewards/beauties/blessings
u should think to the positive...
think on the bright side...
and follow ur heart...
listen to ur heart...wat u want...wat u actually hope to...... Read more
believe urself...
Ganbate ah...
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so,believe what u belief,u r still young,juz take yr time n enjoy yr life, do what u hope or wish to do...but still need to think twice b4 u act or make any decision...dun let yrself regret of it...life can't take 2...gambate...i will stand by u...my dear fren...take care ya...
同时 圣经 也说过 ：“我总不撇下你，也不丢弃你。”
所以你必须要担心吗？？ =）
不要害怕，也不要畏惧他们，
因为耶和华你的神和你同去。
他必不撇下你，也不丢弃你
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this is my favorite quote as well
怎么说呢？我并没有真的对未来很灰很忧虑啦。也没那么快
只是顿悟到自己的抗压能力并没有来到那么好，现在起要做
正如懿颦你说的：“路还长得很呢”。我在英国过得太顺心
反正回来是迟早的事，我想我就不该再浪费时间了。
no matter wat decision u decide pls inform us wo...
^^
加油！！！